Because of misconceptions online dating often leads to disappointments. They are disappointed that many people drop out. But did you know that the majority of these frustrations could easily have been avoided? By merely knowing which misconceptions exist about online dating and finding out how it works? Let us, therefore, pick up and view the most important ones.
The absolute number one in misconceptions about online dating is that online dating would be easy. And that you only try online dating when nothing else succeeds in getting a woman.
However, precisely this belief ensures that:
You are not going to do your best to make the best possible date profile. Because you are not convinced that it is going to work. You therefore just put the wrong things in your profile text. And just write the wrong things in the messages you send to women. This makes it very likely that very few women will respond to your profile and messages. With which you can quickly feel the most unattractive man on earth. This is entirely unjustified by the way because you do not just get well into online dating. You must learn online dating. The reward for your efforts will be great. This is because few men take the trouble to become good in online dating; there are women in abundance for the men who are good at it.
A frequently heard complaint from men about online dating is: that their profile is hardly ever attended by women. But did you know that attractive women on a dating site have everything but time to visit men’s profiles? Beautiful women are often literally overwhelmed on a dating site with messages from men who want to get in touch with them. 50 to 100 messages per day are no exception. The profiles that attractive women view on a dating site are therefore mainly profiles of men, from whom they received a message. This means, in short, that if you do not send messages to women, you cannot expect a lot of visitors on your profile. Now there are unfortunately dating sites that try to seduce men in a nauseous way to become a paying member on a dating site. Among other things by regularly reporting that they have had a visit to their profile, or that women have saved them as favourites. And even sometimes messages are generated that supposedly come from beautiful women. Then suddenly it becomes suspiciously quiet on your date profile and in your mailbox. Fortunately, the most popular dating sites of our country do not have to rely on this kind of nauseating tricks. Again, attractive women do not visit men’s profiles spontaneously in large numbers. And the same applies to sending messages. If you do, and especially just after you have registered on a dating site, you can assume that you are being cheated. And it’s better just to stop completely using that dating site.
Most women do not send you a message spontaneously, except you have made them particularly curious about you. i.e. because your profile text stands out positively. However, you will usually have to work, and women must send original and fun messages if you want to get in touch with them. In other words: through a dating site, you can meet more women than you ever thought possible. Provided you are willing to make an effort.
Research has shown that many a man online loses most of the money to scams by women. Women are also very good at making beautiful promises; they often manage to get serious amounts of money from men. Another reason, therefore, to be very suspicious as a man, when a beautiful, attractive woman suddenly sends you messages out of nowhere. And also a reason to only use reputable dating sites, if you want to meet women online. For the sake of convenience, it can be stated that every dating site that regularly receives advertisements on TV, radio or in magazines is a reputable dating site. No, these dating sites are not free. But they are always much cheaper than going out to meet women.
Women are curious and like to date with someone who is interested. You can therefore safely assume that a woman you meet on a dating site would like to meet with you. Something that can be as simple as you do not like it as much as they want you to believe, but does not want to hurt you. Whatever it is that a woman has to hide, it always means she does not want to talk to you. Or making excuses to avoid an appointment. Something that will not change once that’s going on. What you are doing is wasting your time on a woman. Do not let that happen to you. And always try to meet as quickly as possible and see each other in real life, as soon as you have met a woman you like on a dating site. Unfortunately, dating online is not as easy as people claim. You will have to make some serious effort to learn how to write a good profile text and how you write messages that women respond to. However, once you understand how to do it and understand how to use dating sites to meet nice women, then it is possible to have weekly dates with the best women you can imagine. A first step towards meeting beautiful women is, so to speak, to know how it works with online dating so that misconceptions about online dating at least not influence you.