Online dating is kind of the new generation of dating. It is on of the most easiest way finding a date for you by sitting at their home. Their are thousands of online dating sites available on Internet today. There are billions of boys and girls using these sites for the same purpose as you. You can choose a date from a hell lot of options available on the sites.
But after you find a date online, the question arise is how fast should you move. When should you ask her/him on the real date. When should you ask a person for his/her mobile number.
In case of taking things slowly you will get to live your life as well to get to date someone very easily. If you have some bad relationship experience than it will be natural to take things slow but you should try that your past should not harm your present. Just enjoy the beginning and talk, have fun, flirt. however you need to be careful not to be too slow, and leave days or a week between messages and emails, because it will feel like you are not interested at all. Your date should never feel that she/he is boring or being ignored.You have to give out the right signals.
In the case of online dating you generally talk to the other person just on the basis of assumptions you have made about your date and you generally need to have talk about the things which are in common interest of both of you or you need to have some imagine scenes or romance. All these case can’t for a long time. So taking things slow for a long time can also be a problem.
In the faster approach the best thing that can happen is you can have the chance to get the mobile number very easily and then you can talk on call on daily basis. It can lead to a real date very soon. This has the biggest advantage of all because you will quickly be able to see what strange tics and characteristics the other person has; do they smell, dress strangely or walk oddly? it doesn’t matter how good chemistry you guys have online, the personal chemistry is all that matters.
Every person is different based n likes, nature and growth. Some people likes to take things slow and some like things to be paced up. You can know these things only by talking the person. So decide your approach after talking to the person and by talking I means chatting.
So don’t think about being fast and slow. Take a time-frame which suits for both of you. I disagree with other experts who say there are rules to online dating, such as, respond to two emails, get the phone number and then meet or that you should never respond within the first 24 hours.